Spoil(H)er Alert

A Healed Woman IS a DANGEROUS Woman

As Women, Me being a Dark Skin Woman were taught to be too kind, be overly nice and serve and protect. At least that’s how it feels to me. Putting OTHERS needs before You own is an unnecessary task that We genuinely NEED to DEAD and take ‘POWER’ BACK on. I was NEVER taught to ‘BE’ Soft it’s something that I naturally embodied on my own and noticed MORE of getting older and being around those not USE TO that type of interaction.

I had to deal with being Mocked and Disrespected to Bully me into behaviors that’s just NOT Me at all. I’m guilty for falling for it a couple times, I’m not shame to admit. I’m alot better at handling these situations because once I acknowledge ‘That B.S’ I disengage and pull my energy back from those looking to attack my ‘Self Esteem’ and come for my Pedestal.
WON’T PHUCKIN HAPPEN💅🏿😉 Become Unbothered.

Becoming Unphased & Unbothered

There’s not greater feeling in the world than letting go of what doesn’t serve you. I personally feel Empowered in my energy of being Unbothered. People WILL be taken aback by Your decision on choosing Yourself vs being their Personalized Lowe’s Doormat, You will NOT fold nor Reposition Yourself as such. The Joy and satisfaction of reclaiming Yourself and Power is now YOURS to own and share with people seen WORTHY of You.

Shine Your Light, cuz Ya Girl THAT Bright

What’s keeping me on track after ‘Leaving the World Behind?’ I started to invite MYSELF to places I always wanted to indulge in. I started inviting Myself out on Solo ventures to get to know me, what I like, dislike and want in my Life for Life.

I started planning things for me I wanted to experience. I get it can be kinda awkward going out alone, but I promise you gain so much more clarity and unspoken RESPECT for Self. Because with this time you start seeing things You made ‘Notes’ of and You address them, making those things that has been addressed and laid to rest will no longer play in your face because they no longer play a part of Your Life in ANY Shape, Way, Form or Fashion.

Places & Things I ADORE doing alone and THRIVING in my Feminine Energy:

Restaurants & Lounges w/ a GOOD Vibe for a GREAT Time

As women we look for places that has an Inviting and Elevating Vibe… at least that’s what I look for in a place I’m spending my hard-earned Energy & Money into.

You have Your PERMISSION to NOT SETTLE.

I took myself out for NYE to celebrate solo to a restaurant I was always curious about in passing when on route when I worked for ‘Roush’ Industries. I love Tacos so ‘The Sloppy Crab’ Downtown Detroit was definitely on my ‘Go To’ spots on my List.

I dressed up like I was going on a date. I’ve learned to put my energy 1st this way because now that I am in a Healthy Relationship I feel secure in how I choose to Show Up. You start being in a ‘Receiving’ energy. Everything from this moment on became absolutely COMPLIMENTARY.

Write It Down & Watch Shit Get REAL:

I saw this BOM ASS Planner before my Journey awhile ago and fell in love with it. I saw it again watching another YouTuber ‘Mckenna Walker’ which I then saw as a confirmation. Before I became a Youtuber myself, I wanted my Life to reflect the positive I was contributing to the world vs being in ‘Survival’ Mode, no woman should EVER WANT to be in a place of JUST Surviving. So I decided to save up and INVEST in myself to make my Dreams a reality.

I bought the ‘Book’d: Deluxe Planner’ FINALLY as a Christmas Gift to Myself to keep my Self accountable and on a Purposeful track. I declared this Planner WILL INDEED change my life for the GREATER and truthfully, I see POWERFUL changes in my present reality. I’m currently almost 15lbs down, I’m restructuring my Daily Habits into beneficial Routines, and I’m hella PROUD for holding My end up because only I hold the Keys to My own success.

DreamGirls NEVER Gatekeep

Conclusion:

Only YOU can give yourself the permission to move forward in your Life. Live OUTLOUD the woman You WISH and Desire to be, no one can tell YOU ‘No.’

Be Dullulu like ya girl J.LO 😂 just treat those around You with the respect they give You. That's how You remain in Your Pretty Energy.

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Sincerely,
Pretty P 💋